My question is this: How long is it necessary to wait before getting back into the dating scene?I should mention I have two small children and I don’t want to rush anything.Google “How long should I wait after divorce to start dating?” You’ll get a whole bunch of opinions, but all that matters is you.Make a list of five to 10 things that bring you joy, and start to do them again.Dating after divorce isn’t easy, and will require a great group of people surrounding you to keep you motivated and inspired!More importantly, I’m glad that you’re feeling relieved, happy and optimistic about what happens next – that you’re looking forward to your new lease on life, rather than being paralyzed by fear like so many other victims of abuse.Which is why I want to tell you in the kindest, most non-professional way possible, that you can do WHATEVER THE HELL YOU WANT right now.
I’m in it to win it, not in it for a minute.”At this point, I hope you’ve done the "inside work" necessary to find a healthy relationship.
Do you understand what went wrong in your relationship?
Are you aware of your role in the marriage’s demise?
So how can you start off on the right foot when you're just beginning to dip your toes back into the dating pool?
Here are 15 essential tips to follow: Psychotic optimism is my philosophy on love, which I’m spreading to everyone who will listen.