And I could go on and on but I'm lost and don't know anymore what to do?!! When I was 28, I met a guy who completely changed my perception on dating and men in general. But I was so jaded at the time that I figured if he even bothered to call me back for a second date, he'd just expect sex anyway. Thanks, Becca ) i want to make friend with you as i saw this your profile, my name is miss rima from Indonesia, please write back direct to me at my email address because i may not reply you if you did not reply to my email address,( I feel my girlfriend feels the same (I am a guy) i just want to do everything to make her happy But i know the spark dying was partly my fault Coz starting to live together for almost an year now u get too used to a person Let me give an e.g Earlier if she used to come over i used to bathe shave apply perfume clean my place and she used to come n see me 2-3 times a week But when the person lives wid u They know ur lifestyle n its like waking up with someone u r completely comfortable with in every sense So much so u start thinking of them as a part of u This is gud but the imp. He called me just several hours after the first date to tell me he had a wonderful time. You know all those articles you read about how a guy who is too eager to contact you is desperate? If you are willing to do all seven of these things, your relationship will flourish. We use to go out on dates all the time, now it feels like he's bored with me. I try to tease and flirt but I literally get pushed off! I work a lot and so does be but he gets sat-sun off and he never wants to do anything. I love to surprise him with breakfast in bed even on days where it's going to be a hectic day at the office.
as for him being sensitive, you've gotta sit down eith him and have a nice talk. The point is to talk about your day, your worries, and your hopes.
And the one time I told him about how I felt, how I thought that I feel like he's un-excited about us anymore, he started crying. Remember he's the man in the relationship, and he's the one getting down on one knee to you. I hope this help i am dating someone and I am at the same age as when u started to date him..... Make sure the tires in his car have enough air in them before he leaves town. Think to get her favorite flower once in a while, for no reason.
My question to you all is this: Does it seem like the precious element and excitement of being in love has vanished in our relationship? Moreover, how can I talk to my boyfriend about it without him getting angry or tear-ridden? And I feel like a 40 year old trying to savor a marriage. V r getting married next year...n he wants baby itseems so no planning... Fix the leak in the bathroom he’s been complaining about.
My friend and her boyfriend are moving into two different apartments. And all guys Doesn't matter their age because they are just LAZY!! You may not always have time to process the conflict at that moment, but at least let your partner know that you are having a problem and that you will need to discuss it later.
I am keeping this into consideration, but am a bit scared to move on it. And want to watch t.v or play there game Lady's dont take it to the heart trust me mine boyfriend Is 37 and I am 29..show them that u love them.. When you go to bed together that night, discuss it, if you haven’t already.5) You are not enemies: When you are in a conflict with your partner, stop your arguing for a moment. Start thinking about what you love about this person, and what you are grateful for about them. In the middle of a conflict it sure can feel that way.