For example, Julie didn't talk very openly with Tom about what she wanted, sexually.
She carried the residue of shame about revealing her sexual desires, shame that originated in her relationship with her mother.
Handsome and charming, he was able to find women eager to participate.
Tantric and related practices are, in fact, part of "Making Love," but they can also be misused.
In Hook-Up Sex you and your partner use each other's bodies for your own pleasure.
Sometimes Marital Sex includes a Hook-Up sexual experience - perhaps when on a vacation, or aided by ingesting substances, legal or illegal.
"Hook-Up Sex" refers to just plain f***ing; that is, a purely physical encounter.
"Marital Sex" is the kind of sex life that most committed couples tend to have -- married or not, straight or gay.
He had no soul-to-soul connection with any of the women he drew into his serial sexual relationships. La Bier," she said, "I read that women require an average of 14 minutes of sexual stimulation to reach orgasm.
Maybe that's the problem - that Tom's just not a good lover." Julie and her husband had descended into what I call a "functional relationship." They didn't have sex much anymore, and when they did it was pretty uninspired.