Meet her gaze and keep it for longer than usual, longer than comfortable.
After all these years I still want to know who you are every day.” But only say it if you mean it, if you know it’s true. Before you lay your hand on her, notice the sensation in your hand.
“Being with my wife now, honestly, feels like she doesn't really care about my emotional needs or what's happening with me on a daily basis anymore. All my customers are married women whose husbands are, or may be impotent.
I wasn’t interested anymore, so I cheated my way out of it.” 5. A customer may choose to go the natural way, or I wank and cum into a container for it to be inseminated in them. And most of my customers preferred natural intercourse until they took seed.
After the publication of the confessions of the 25 women on why they are cheating in their marriages, some 26 men have also confided in David Papa Bondze-Mbir, a relationship coach on Facebook on a condition of anonymity to share their stories. The woman I am sleeping with currently is my wife’s friend, who paid for our services, and chose me to work on her.
The men have also explained why though they are happily married but cannot stop cheating on their wives. We’ve tried everything to enable her enjoy sex with me, but she’s always in pain and bruises. I don’t know for how long this marriage to her may last, because I love sex, rough sex, and she’s too ‘green’ slow and ‘godly’ for my liking. She got pregnant, but afterwards, threatened to blackmail me to my wife, if I did not build a sexual relationship with her.
Customers would just profile us, and then choose whom to ‘work’ with.
I was given a car, a cover-up office, and my main office, which had a bedroom, toilet and bath, a kitchen, and a hall.
As a marriage counsellor working with men and women in relationship crisis, I help clients navigate numerous marriage counselling issues. Women leave for many reasons, but there’s one reason in particular that haunts me, one that I want men to understand: Women leave because their man is not present. While many situations are complex, there’s one profoundly simple truth that men need to know. He’s working, golfing, gaming, watching TV, fishing… Women leave men with whom they have children, homes and lives. To paint a better picture; we couldn't even last 10 seconds in kissing not to even talk about hugging and squeezing and caressing. It was like we were having Sumo Wrestling in bed just trying to have one-dying-kiss. We are able to make time to be with each other, many times in a week. “Sex in the morning, sex in the evening and sex at dawn is what keeps me sane every day. When a fine girl reaches out to me on Facebook, or Whats App’s something sexy (photo/nasty sentences, etc.) I go with the flow. I needed something different, something fresh.” 22. I hit on her because she is matured, single and wanted to have a baby. The inverted nipple, the dimpling of the breasts skin, the pains she felt every time I accidently touched her breasts during sex. I had an affair to punish her; to hurt her real bad… Sometimes, women need to submit, and know who the man of the house is.” 26.When I asked her why she does that; she will say to me that she doesn't trust me. Am I in love with my gay partner (who is also married with kids)? And because we are also both friends with the other’s significant other, we are able to be together in each other’s home, when our wives are away. I want it every day, so when I was getting less than I knew I was entitled to, at home, in our forth month of marriage, I had to seek for it out there… I used to ‘fight’ it, so I stay faithful to my wife, but Dave, the means to enable me cheat are just there – in my home. We hit it out because of our common interest: I have been married for Eight (8) years without children. We are already having talks about having a boy next year.” 23. I am attracted to a woman more because of her breasts. “Dave, even though my wife and I have been through a lot in this 18 years of marriage, with my countless messing ups, having numerous affairs due to the distance (Family is in Kumasi, I work in Accra), I know I love my wife with everything in me. When I was promoted and transferred to Accra, we all couldn’t move to Accra: Kids were in school there, she had a business to sustain there, etc. And it’s unfortunate I can’t go three days without sex.” From the inbox of David Papa Bondze-Mbir's Facebook page.