So you enter into the relationship as your best self and then one of two things happens: it works out, or it doesn’t.
And if it doesn’t, you’re OK because you know that it just means you weren’t a matforith that person.
Maybe you’d like to go on dates more regularly or see him a few times during the week.
Tell yourself that you will be fine with things for the time being, and if nothing changes in two weeks, then you can be upset about it and deal with it.
Anyone who has dated long enough knows exactly what I’m talking about.QUIZ: Are You Accidentally Sabotaging Your Relationship? It is not there to serve you and give you things like happiness and self-esteem.It is not there to make you feel good about life and about yourself.MORE: 5 Ways to Ruin a Budding Relationship I’m not saying the relationship will be doomed after this point, but I can guarantee it will cause a major shift in the dynamic and it will definitely ruin your ability to actually enjoy the relationship anymore.Rather than reflexively panicking when something seems amiss, set a deadline.