If there truly is barely to no sexual intimacy in your marriage, this is not something to feel guilty about wanting. My wife has a very hard time even engaging in a conversation about sex. Other spiritual women have shared with her, but she doesn’t improve. It’s not about the sex, it’s about intimacy, It think. Reply Hi Tom, A sexually growing relationship is ultimately what I have discovered in my work with couples, is what makes it satisfying. When the sexual relationship remains the same, the same style, the same pattern for years that’s when it becomes unsatisfying.Continue to keep the lines of communication with your spouse open and figure out as a marital team what can be done about this particular challenge. If I try to say anything to improve our sex life she immediately becomes defensive and says “Maybe you should find somebody who has nothing better to do.” Which breaks my heart because I would never want to do that to her. I’m a senior minister in a growing church thats depending on my integrity and leadership. Haven’t cheated, but I’m baffled that men who do get a bad wrap, when the faithful, bill paying, cooking father gets frustration. You are certainly doing the right thing by communicating with her in an honest way that you are longing for more.
My wife does have sexual desires and she is longing for sexual activity with me. I just don’t have an interest in being sexual with my wife, although I did at one time.
Rather than the relationship continue to decline and disconnect sexually as the years continue, take action.
Case Scenario B: I do not have much of a sexual drive.
Perhaps over time as you provide a sexual intimate experience for your spouse you too will see that sexual intimacy is for you too. Shows include: Ingraham Angle, Your World With Neil Cavuto, Coast To Coast, Hannity, O'Reilly Factor, Real Story With Gretchen Carlson, America's Newsroom, America's News HQ, FOX & Friends, FOX & Friends FIRST, America Live, Willis Report, John Stossel, and more. It would be interesting to know if she views the sexual relationship in marriage as an important part of having a healthy connected marriage. Rather, perhaps if she and you were to read this blog together, as well as the commentary in response to this article, it may open up a dialogue beyond what the two of you have experienced prior to this blog. For marriage is sacred, a beautiful gift that can grow over time when the plant of marriage is watered. Karen Reply Hello I need help, been married for over twenty years. You mention you are the initiator and you start in the same spot. If she is not taking action, it may very well be on you to take action. To interact during the sexual encounter differently.
For now though, for the purposes of the particular focus of this blog – do it for your spouse. Or, does she views a man’s desire for his wife as something other than healthy? My wife and i are devote Christians with Three Teenage boys. You see, a couple’s sexual style is just that: a style.