In the message, Harris also indicated that it was "OK" for single men and women to go out for coffee by themselves, apparently correcting misconceptions some singles had in his church.
Christian psychologists Henry Cloud and John Townsend suggest that avoiding dating in order to avoid suffering, as Harris advises, causes those who do so to forgo opportunities to mature, especially through learning how to create healthy boundaries.
you said it’s i NFi Ni TY but it’s more on MEMORi ES. ****************************** four months seems so short for most people. I hate the way you smile because it makes me smile too. pero pag nawala na ashes na lang, ashes na mas mabuting i-tago dahil kadalasan ang abo nito ay paalala ng isang apoy na nakapaso sayo. sinabi mo na mahal mo ko at ang pag-ibig mo ay tanging ako at naniwala naman ako, ngunit bakit ako’y iyong niloko? cause when your happy with somebody else, I pretend I was happy without you. Sabi ko di na kita mamahalin pa, na kaya kong gawin lahat yun. Pero kahit bangag ako, ni minsan, di ka nawala sa puso ko.
the only guy who could sit in my armchair is the guy whom I love. if I’d choose between you and the prince, I’d choose you, someone not perfect but real… I hate the way I like you because I like you more than myself. Paggising ko panaginip lang pala dahil ang totoo ako pala si hadlang. Sa tuwing ika’y nakikita, puso’y nasasaktan alam mo kung bakit? pero di mo ko mahal gustuhin ko mang malaman mo ang nararamdaman ko, di na maari dahil mahal na mahal ka ng kaibigan ko. alam ko din na mahal mo siya, pero, sinabi ko sayo ang nararamdaman ko. ikaw buhay ko, ako istorbo sayo ikaw mundo ko, ako walang kuwenta sayo, ikaw langit ko, ako impiyerno sayo. I pretend to be deaf when I heard you, I pretend to be blind when I saw the two of you, I pretend not to get hurt when I’m supposed to. Mahal mo siya, pero hulaan mo kung sinong mahal ko? Minsan masayahin ako, minsan seryoso, minsan sobrang sweet, minsan sensitive, minsan manhid.
." On November 20, 2005 Harris gave a message to the church at which he is Senior Pastor, "Courtship, Schmourtship: What Really Matters in Relationships".
you may not be able to look around the world for me, but your eyes are enough to see through me the real me. at first I wasn’t really expecting much out of you, I thought you’d just be one of those passers by in my life, the ones who come and go. I’ve already let you go, even before we even became something. Sana di ko na kailangang turuan ka, na bukas puso mo ay sa akin na. we love someone so much, we care for them too much, we give them almost everything, but for all we know. it hurts to think of how we were before, we used to have so much fun but now there’s this big wall between us which we can’t break. yet made me feel the real happiness that made my frozen heart fragile. ‘if you want to be the teardrops, then I’d rather be your eyes cause I won’t let you fall to the thorn. either suffer the consequence or go on with the pain. ” all I did was what any friend would do.” (`’•.¸(`’•.¸-:¦:-¸.•’´)¸.•’´) «´¨`•. Thanks for mending and breaking my heart, I do owe you alot. why should I wait for someone who doesn’t want to arrive? Ba By I l Ov E y Ou And I‘ll never let you go But if I have too boy I Think you should know All the love we made can never be erased and I promise That you will never be replaced¨`•..« (¸.•’´(¸.•’´-:¦:-`’•.¸)`’•.¸ »-(¯`v´¯)-» I Like You You Like Me Should We Kiss? (“)(“) oºw An Na Te Ll yo U w Ha T i M f Ee Li N Bu T I Do N’t Kn Ow Wh Er E t O St Ar T I w An Na Te Ll y Ou e Ve Ry Th In G Bu T i’M a Fr Ai D you’Ll Bre Ak m Y h Ea Rt Bu T w Hy Sh Ou Ld So Me Th In G So Eas Y Be So Ha Rd To d O? just once, I’d like to receive roses from someone on valentines day just once, I’d like to hear sweet words of love from someone just once I’d like someone to hold my hand and hug me when i’m scared just once I’d like to be loved and feel special to someone and just once, I’d like to feel loved and not be jealous of the couples around me. oh how I wish I could wake myself up from this dream and bring myself back to reality where you ain’t really coming. you came to touch me, to love me and then hold me tight. “If teardrops were meant to fall on the thorn of the rose, I’d rather be the teardrop than me being the thorn.” “You told me you loved me, I believed, yet I didn’t feel it, I searched and found a new love, you looked back and you said I didn’t believe you, after that, you made me feel that you love me, but now it’s too late, I’m sorry–because I’ve found what’s best for me.” I’m taking my heart back from the devil who gave me not only sadness. and I fell in love with you when I thought it was time to let you know, you smiled and said.