[Read: 9 easy things you can do to get his mom to adore you] #10 You may feel judged by his kids. Having kids of his own already, do you think he’s ready/wants more kids with you? [Read: 50 relationship questions to test your compatibility] #13 He may be traumatized. Perhaps his ex-wife has an addiction or mental disease *well, some guys would say their ex-wives are crazy*, or the whole marriage has been disastrous.Either way, no one comes out of a marriage unscathed.Dating after divorce is no different than dating before divorce.
He may not feel as excited about the whole idea of marriage, especially after coming off a rough one. The thing is, he might be jaded about the whole thing after what he experienced.
He may also be having a difficult time adjusting to a new relationship after a failed marriage.
Therefore, do your best to be level-headed, kind, and considerate of what he may be going through.
So your boyfriend may be divorced, but that doesn’t mean he’s divorced completely from his old life.
He’s still friends with those who are also friends with his ex.