If he's never been married or lived with a woman, he's never had to deal with what's "expected" of him.
He's been only responsible to himself and that comes off as seeming selfish.
I guess I'm kind of an expert in this arena because I've been involved with a younger man for the past two and a half years. He's 23 years younger, which is probably a bigger gap than most couples.
The crazy thing is how perfectly suited we are to each other and how well we match on every level, even though, on the surface, it would seem like we'd have very little in common.
Here's my checklist for deciding on whether your "younger" man is someone you want as just a playmate, or a serious, long-term relationship.He's just never had to think about anyone but himself.3. But if that's all you've got going, it's not enough to build a relationship on.Interests And Activities If your younger man is still in the party mode, going to clubs, drinking until all hours with his buddies, or is obsessed with things like extreme sports, you might have trouble finding things you both enjoy — besides having sex. If you have enough interests in common, then it's healthy to have your own, separate activities.I was hoping for someone to have great sex with, to join on dates and take a vacation with a couple of times a year.Even when Stephen and I first got together, I assumed it would be temporary.