By my own admission, I’ve just come to terms with the fact that I’m not a handsome man.
I will freely admit that I like e Harmony’s approach. Despite your “good soldier” tone, I can tell this is a very painful issue for you.
When you begin the first round of communication with someone, you’ll know that they have accepted your appearance. Warren, isn’t that giving in to the people who are making judgments based on looks? In your unique circumstance we’re trying to select the people who aren’t making a judgment on that criterion.
If things are as you describe them, a woman who moves forward with you will have made a decision that your appearance is less important than or equally important to the other things she knows about you.
The perception of attractiveness can have a significant effect on how people are judged in terms of employment or social opportunities, friendship, sexual behavior, and marriage.
However, there are numerous differences based on gender.