Seriously, these women are just not worth the grief. Dealing with these women is a recipe for drama, drama, and more drama.It’s hard to have a relationship with her because she’s never there.Usually in a relationship the man winds up DEAD LAST.There’s never a good day in the life of a single mother because there’s always some new crisis about to emerge in her life.The reason single mothers need the drama is because it makes them feel important. And when Captain-Save-A-Hoe™ is doting on them trying to solve their problems it makes them feel an artificial sense of value.And she thinks she’s the one who deserves the best.
Single mothers think because she had a baby out of wedlock the world owes her EVERYTHING.
A man will usually see glimpses of this when she chastises her kids when he first meets them.
During that meeting she’ll yell at them and bully them to get them to act right while praising a man like he’s an angel.
There will always be some distance between a single mother and the new man in her life. Some of these guys still think they have a shot at getting back with her. And they’ll be playing that game with each other until their children turn 18 or 21. It’s just not worth dealing with this fool and his insecure bullshit. They will act out to keep you from getting closer to mommy.
They will make accusations against you to get you in trouble.