Others consider the above approach to life to be irresponsible or even reckless, and feel much more comfortable planning their life out, including their love life.
Women who belong to this category will not be happy sticking around a guy, if they know in advance that it is not going anywhere and has no potential to turn into an actual partnership.
No woman is attracted to a guy who is a couch potato or who is unable to climb a set of stairs without being out of breath, especially if the woman herself is very active.
Young guys have a stronger sex drive and are naturally hungrier for a woman’s body.
Many younger guys are driven to women who are 10 years older than they are or more, as these women are often more confident and more sexually driven and passionate than the younger women.
These younger guys are both curious and excited about dating a woman who, is not ashamed of what she wants sexually, unlike the younger girls of his own age who are often confused about just about everything, including their romantic and sexual desires.
Some people are committed to live every moment to its fullest and will do what they can to enjoy what they have while they still have it.
A woman who belongs to that category should enjoy your relationship with a young guy and all its benefits and thrills, while recognizing that it will eventually be over due to no one’s fault.
An intense physical affair might just be something she needs to enjoy your life and to be distracted from her previous break-up or disappointments in men.I remember in the synagogue years ago, no one could agree on just what their relationship was.But I have read on a few occasions that Esther was Mordechai's wife. Although it is not explicit in the Megillah, the Talmud does say that Esther was Mordechai's wife.Only you know which category you belong to or which category you want to belong to, and once you determine which approach fits your life philosophy, you are likely to make the right choice for yourself given your unique situation, as well as what you need and want at that specific point in your life.In the Purim story, how do we understand that Mordechai handed over Esther to Achashverosh?