If love is blind, it’s my job to take the blinders off and let you know how to make slight adjustments that will lead you to greater happiness.
And let me be the first to tell you, greater happiness doesn’t rest in choosing a guy who’s just like you.
Right now, we are a week out of our “break up/taking a break”. This video really resonated with me even though I am NOT ready to date again.
I am FINALLY going to do the “right” thing and be alone and figure out my own head first.
They’re not afraid of showing their feelings in public or telling their girls flat out how they feel about them. The extreme version of this is known as “gaijin hunter” and some will do everything for the sake of having one of those adorable “half”-kids (half Western, half Japanese) just to toss their foreign guy later on.(Just imagine if men said the same thing: “I need a woman who is smarter, stronger, and more successful than I am.” No one would ever be able to settle down because everyone would be trying to trade up! After all, he’s surrounded by smart, driven people all day long. He’s doesn’t care about your doctorate or your triathlon medals. And if you perpetually think that the more impressive you are, the more it’s going to allow you to land an impressive man, I would encourage you to reconsider.) This creates a conundrum for women who consider themselves in the 90th percentile of everything. 2% make over 200K, etc.) Furthermore, these prime specimens of man meat are NOT necessarily looking to date female versions of themselves. When he gets home, he needs to turn off his business mind. Men are looking for someone who makes his life better, simply by being optimistic, silly, sexy, and fun.He’s got a lot of amazing qualities that I will not forget about, but I think there were enough bad “ingredients” in the mix that I did not know I could deal with for a lifetime.Believe me, I am working through all the blog posts in this website so I can try to understand myself, and men, and dating even better. thanks for letting me ramble…I rarely post but something about this video spoke to me.