All kinds of people, too – waiters, policemen, the guards at the Vatican Museums, shop keepers.
This dating culture differs a lot from Sweden’s, and it just goes to show that if you want to make it in the dating game in unknown territory, you’d do well to find out which rules apply there first.
Many people regard those who only hang out in the bar as suspicious*. If you catch somebody’s eye, and the two of you look at each other for more than a second, then you’re good to start dancing with each other (at this point, you don’t even have to ask about the dance, you both know it’s coming).
From the moment the two of you start dancing, the rules aren’t as strict as before.
Many people see this as too forward and will get defensive if they are approached in this way.Although it might still be a bit early to change your status.If you’re dating a Swedish guy you should be aware that he probably won’t try to woo you in the classical ways.My international friends from university asked me today to explain how dating works in Sweden.Apparently they have trouble getting into the rules of the Swedish dating game.