Dating someone that does not have the same values as you and surrounding yourself with someone who isn’t able to hold you accountable usually means they cause you stumble.
It’s okay to protect yourself from this and ultimately, you won’t be able to change someone, only God can.
Codependency is real and there are so many ways we can protect ourselves from this.
As we really dive into a relationship with God, it’s important to stay focused.
I had girlfriends that lost it when they broke up with their boyfriends because they felt like they were losing a part of their relationship with God.
Is this man able to lead me in a relationship where we serve God above ourselves every day? It’s going to mess you up, confuse your heart, and potentially smother your soul. If you are hoping to be the “one” who changes a boy’s heart and encourages him to chase after God.
I won’t sit here and tell you that’s impossible (because God can do anything) but I want you to think about what God wants for you in a relationship right now.