Because Internet dating has been a part of his generational experience, he is more comfortable with it as a normal mode of communication and meeting people, and is generally more open to the process and experience.Therefore, when he connects and makes plans online, he likely follows through, sometimes sooner, sometimes later.For many reasons, it is difficult for him to make room for something real. Wide-Eyed but Distractable This primarily 20 to mid 30's guy is excited about the possibility of expanding his horizons and meeting new people.He is bold, tolerant, open, and ready to explore what online dating has to offer.The longer he continues the lie, the worse the discovery is.Relationships that start by duping a partner don't end well. Sooo Busy This is the former Ivy League rower, now a neurosurgeon who has chosen the Internet to meet women who are likely on their own tight timelines.Either way, these scenarios may take a long time to play out. Already Taken He wants to know what else is out there, but won’t necessarily act on it. Either way, he is not planning to leave his current relationship, but feels like he is missing out on something.
He may be very well meaning, and may truly believe that once he meets these young women they will be so drawn to him that the deception won’t matter, and the age difference will be rendered irrelevant.(This category may also include the desire to act out sexual fantasies and fetishes that couldn’t previously be realized).Interestingly, fantasy can be so powerful for him that when reality fails to compete, he finds ways to fade away.And how many of these criteria do you think are the direct result of the relationship he just came from?More than finding a partner who will meet all his hopes and dreams, he wants everything he has longed for but couldn’t have in previous relationships.