We can put ourselves in a position to meet other Christians by looking for a church singles group.We may want to volunteer for a cause we care about or join other groups, being sure that we are doing it because we enjoy it, not just because we want to meet as many potential mates as possible.Question: "Should a Christian use a Christian dating service to find a spouse?" Answer: The Bible doesn’t talk about dating services.It is also wise to meet the person face-to-face before becoming too emotionally intimate via email communication.When you do meet for the first time, do so in a public place—never allow them to drive you anywhere or take you somewhere where you will be alone.
There should be a balance, as we remember that God is perfectly loving (Ephesians ; 1 John -18) and perfectly sovereign over every situation, desire, and need (Psalm 1; Romans -39).
It is wise to plan a double date, so that a close friend can offer his or her opinion on this (let’s face it) complete stranger.
Listen to your instincts and get away fast if you ever feel you are in any danger.
As in all decisions, we should ask God to direct us clearly.
It can be difficult to meet single Christian men and women, especially if most of our friends have already married.