After contacting their support I got general guidilens on what to do and where and what NOT to do.
I fell as though I'm losing everything invested due all the down time experienced with Skadate. Hate to move software vendors, but am not sure what other options there is.
I came across Ska Date in an online review and decided to give them a try.
I am just learning the ropes to computer programming and every step of the way Ska Date has been there for me. It costs time and money for Ska Date to operate and they need to cover their overhead costs.
Defenitly recommend SK for those who already have a site and feel like moving to a new scripe. I am using Skadate script for a rather specific niche where "dating" per say is actually more of an interest matchmaking process. Well I did expect this, thus got an Advanced solution with some free development hours to cover major modification of mine - connecting events to clubs.
I have clubs who would like to find members and members looking for a club to join. Events feature was there by default ( another awesome thing is ability to use third party plugins).